Your Engagement & 6 Tips for Starting Wedding Planning

My dear! If you have found my blog post, it is most likely because you have just gotten engaged. Huge congratulations! It is an absolutely fantastic time you are about to face - filled with excitement, joy and fun.

Getting off to a good start can make a world of difference when planning your wedding. Here are six tips to guide you in the early stages of wedding planning.

1. Your Preferred Wedding Date

Talk about when you would like to have the wedding. I don't recommend that you fixate on one date, but rather consider how long you would like to spend on planning, as well as what your dream season is.

2. The Wedding Budget

Although it may not be the most exciting thing, I always recommend that my couples have a good talk about their expectations for the budget and the financial aspect of the wedding. Ask yourself:

What is the maximum we want to spend on the wedding?
How much money can we save?
Who will contribute to the wedding budget?
What elements would we like to prioritize our money on - music, flowers, food, wine, etc.?

3. The Guest List

Make a preliminary list of the guests you would like to invite. Some people also choose to make a B list, while others choose to invite more guests just to the reception. It is important to have an indication of the number of guests early in the process, as it will influence which locations are relevant for you.

4. Your Unique Wedding Location

Start considering where you could see yourself celebrating your love. Remember to keep in mind whether your desired number of guests can be accommodated, whether your budget can be met, and whether you feel comfortable. I always recommend that you visit the venue - because it's only when you're there that you can feel if it feels right.

5. Style & Design

Once you have found the venue, I definitely think you should start talking about the style of the wedding. The venue creates the foundation for the rest of the planning and the style that will work. Make mood boards, use social media and get inspired by local suppliers.

6. Expectations Alignment & Remember to enjoy

Planning is a huge part of your wedding and it is therefore important that you have a talk about how much time you can and want to spend on planning. Consider whether you need some help or whether you want to do it yourself. Of course, it is a question of temperament whether you can enjoy the process and the day itself if you have to do everything yourself. Or whether it can give you peace and security to get professional help. The most important thing is that you find a solution together that suits you. There is no "one-fits-all" solution.